What Holds People Back From Free Credit Counseling In A Debt Crisis?
When a debt crisis strikes an individual or a family, what is it that stops people from"heading it off at the pass" as they said in the old cowboy movies, by seeking professional credit counseling. With todays ever increasing debt loads and lack of savings, more and more people will face a debt crisis at least once in there life. A debt crises so overwhelming that they will face losing there credit rating, possibly there home and car.
First of all, it is quite understandable that people become overwhelmed when facing any crises. Even though the debt crises may have been building for months or years, when it finally expresses itself, it is always a shock and produces a sort of paralysis. Picture yourself, you are feeling fine and you go for a routine doctors visit. Suddenly, you are informed you require open heart surgery. Your reaction is to go into a kind of self preserving shock. You do not want open heart surgery, but you are told unless you have it, you will not live long. I have personally counseled with hundreds of individuals and families on the brink of crises. It took months of financial pain for them to make the move to seek a credit counselor and learn there debt relief options.
Virtually everyone I ever counseled with wants to pay there debts and honor there debt obligations. The problem is, now they are faced with a situation which they personally cannot resolve, just as the patient cannot perform his or her own surgery. So, I as the credit counselor present to the debtor a few debt relief options after examining there income and expenditures, and learning a bit more about them. In some cases the debt crises has been so bad that as a trained credit counselor I may see 6 months down the road a foreclosure about to happen,unless there is quick intervention. The debtor says, I will think about it. Why? Why not accept a debt settlement or debt consolidation program that is affordable and will stave off disaster and allow them to sleep at night? Some do, but most are not yet ready. They want to think about it. Think about it?
As the problem continues to get worse. The heart begins to fail, the sheriff shows up at the front door with a court subpoena for a judgment. They are not ready, because the pain is not yet great enough to act. They are still in denial, even though they have taken the first step and acknowledged the problem, they are not ready. Sometimes, the solution itself is so good that it makes the debtor feel better just knowing there is an answer to there problem. Unfortunately, this is not good. The patient may die before agreeing to the operation.
Written By:
Steven Ciantro
Credit Counselor
American Debt Enders
Help@americandebtenders.com
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